
I know that it has been a while since we have updated but a lot has gone on here lately. Let's start with the 14th. On December 14 Mark and I loaded up the dogs and headed down to Florida so that his mom could watch them while we went to Oklahoma and Texas for Christmas. The way that the trip was supposed to go was we were going to be gone to OKC/Christmas from the 15th to the 24th and then we would fly back to Jacksonville and spend time there until the day after Christmas when we would drive back to Virginia because Mark had to be back to work on the 27th. Well it all started out well and we got to Florida on the 14th and left on the 15th to fly to Oklahoma. That all went fine and well and we got there and Mark's dad picked us up from the airport and we went out to lunch. Over the next few days we went bowling and to play pool and we also went fishing...good times!

Mark and his DadAfter a few days in Oklahoma Mark and I borrowed his stepmom's car and drove down to Round Rock Texas. We decided that we would drive to Round Rock and see that side of the family and then stop in Fort Worth to see family there on the way back through. On Saturday while we were at the dinner table at Aunt Jeanie's house mom got a phone call. It was the phone call that we all expected to get but not at this time...Papaw had passed away. We found out on Saturday and they think that he died Thursday night. Aunt Judy was the last one to talk to him on Thursday night and then on Saturday when Aunt Judy and Aunt Joyce went to see him there were two newspapers on his doorstep. They were not able to get inside the house and had to get the police to break in through a window because Papaw had bolted the storm door. Anyway, his fineral was set for the day after Christmas. Remember: Mark was supposed to be back at work on the 27th. Well he called his Senior Chief and told them what had happend and they extended his leave until the 2nd. *whew* I was so happy for that!
The funeral was very nice. The night before, Uncle Jerry had the family gather around and share stories about Papaw and then he took those stories and used them in the service. It was so nice. There was also a slide show of a bunch of picture of Papaw and Biggie and everything. It was all so nice. Since the viewing, which was 2 hours before the service, I had not gone up to the casket to see Papaw. I just couldn't do it. I knew that at the end of the service everyone walks by and pays their last respects so I knew by then I would be ready to do the same. So how about when it came time for the family to pay their last respects I was the first one! That much I did not expect...haha
I am so glad that Mark was able to take the extra time and be there with me. We had talked about if he for some reason was not able to stay than I would stay and fly back later...I did not want to do that at all. He was wonderful through it all!! I am so glad that he was there with me. He is so amazing.
A couple of days after the funeral Mark and I headed back to Oklahoma 1. to take the car back and 2. cause that is where we were flying out of. We flew back to Jacksonville and was able to stay there until New Years Day when we drove back up to Virginia.
I must say that after so long away from home it was SO nice to be home!!! We have spent the time home fixing our house. I am not sure exactly what has gotten into us but we have redone our kitchen and cleaned it all out and up, gone BIG TIME grocery shopping, cleaned up the living room, and even steam cleaned the carpet!! It has been so much fun though! I love doing things like that with Mark. *smile*
So all in all, my Christmas holiday was bitter sweet. It was great to see everyone and spend time together, Mark and I got a Wii (YAY!!) from his dad and stepmom, and then it was hard with Papaw passing cause where we all expected that this would probably be his last Christmas I don't think that any of us expected him to go a few days before Christmas. I took it pretty hard actually. I am much better now but I took his passing very hard for about 3 days after the funeral. I guess I just wasn't ready.
Well that was Christmas!!
Mark is on duty and I am taking dinner to him so I guess I better go get things together so that when he emails me and lets me know what time to be there I can start dinner.
I'll update again soon!!
Ciao!