"What a lot we lost when we stopped writing letters. You can't reread a phone call." - Liz Carpenter
I miss the days of getting letters in the mail. The days of taking time out of your day to really let someone know that you thought of them enough to physically write out your thoughts and feelings for them to read. The days of going to the mailbox and seeing a handwritten envelope with the return address of someone that you know and knowing that you mean that much to them that they took time out of their schedule and their day to think of you. Really think of you. Ask how you are doing. Bridge the gap that distance, in miles, has created.
The last time that I wrote a handwritten letter, dear friends, I got a short response that stated to please email next time because they just did not have time to handwrite a letter. Do you know how that makes you feel, my readers? It is not a very good feeling. It kind of hurts, makes you feel like a fool, it makes you wonder if everyone feels that way these days, and ultimately it makes you not want to take the time out of your busy schedule to waste time writing a heartfelt letter, even just one to say "I'm thinking about you", that will go unappreciated.
We are too "busy" these days. Sure, we are truly busy. I have 3 children, one on the way, a husband, a home to keep clean, meals to cook, groceries to buy, etc., but if you stop to think about it there are always times that we are doing something that isn't a necessity but an enjoyment. Maybe that enjoyment for you is reading for 30 minutes during naptime. Maybe it is scrapbooking after bedtime. Or maybe it is just sitting on the couch at the end of the day watching a movie. Sure, we all need time for ourselves, but just think of the ways that you can brighten someone's day with 10 minutes taken out of your "me time" to drop a letter in the mail.
I challenge you, readers, take 10 minutes out of your day and write a letter to a friend; maybe an old friend, maybe a best friend, but a friend. It doesn't have to be long, just something that says, "I'm thinking about you." A person's handwriting is unique and it tells a story. Type on a computer, tablet, or smartphone screen, is standard. Everyone uses it. Be unique, friends. Don't let the "business" of the days take over your life so much that you forget to water your friendships. For if you do that, all you are left with is the place in your garden of life where that beautiful flower once stood.